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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Is It Ever Too Soon To Recover?

Conflicting opinions from a wide variety of sources confuse the question of when to begin a process of completing what was left emotionally incomplete when someone important to you dies. Medical, psychological, societal and family experts all approach the issue from different perspectives.

It is not uncommon for us to hear of people being told by a mental health professional, "It's too soon to begin your grief work, you're not ready yet." We grit our teeth every time we hear that comment. Imagine that you have fallen down and gashed your leg and that blood is gushing from the wound. Then imagine someone walking by and saying: "It's too soon, you’re not ready for medical attention yet."

What if circumstances and events have broken your heart? Imagine that you are experiencing the massive and conflicting emotions caused by the death of someone important to you. Then imagine a friend, or worse, a professional, saying to you: "It's too soon, you’re not ready for emotional attention yet."

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Ask John & Russell – "Reaching out for someone who’s always been there, only to discover when I need him one more time, he’s no longer there.” (Published 4/21/2015)


After thirty-nine years of marriage, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do us part; then, in a heart-beat, that person is gone. How do you go on when your heart is so broken?

Russell Friedman Replies:

Dear Debra,

Thanks for your poignant note and question.

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If you or someone important to you wants help with grief: Look for a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist℠ in your community. The Grief Recovery Institute ® trains and mentors Certified Grief Recovery Specialists℠ throughout the United States & Canada.

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Workshops & Training Schedule

The Grief Recovery Institute ® offers Certification Training programs for those who wish to help grievers.

    April 2015
    Melbourne, VIC, Australia - April 9-12, 2015
    San Francisco, CA - April 10-13, 2015
    Memphis, TN - April 17-20, 2015
    Denver, CO - April 17-20, 2015
    Omaha, NE - April 24-27, 2015
    Winnipeg, MB, Canada - April 24-27, 2015
    Monterrey, NL, Mexico - April 24-27, 2015
  • May 2015
    Princeton, NJ - May 1-4, 2015
    Portland, OR - May 1-4, 2015
    Los Angeles, CA - May 15-18, 2015
    Indianapolis, IN - May 15-18, 2015
    Brisbane, QLD, Australia - May 21-24, 2015
    Mexico City, DF, Mexico -May 29-June 1, 2015
    Vancouver, BC, Canada - May 29-June 1, 2015

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